28 Apr
2010
Jotted down in a file I keep called "life rules", I have a simple phrase. Create, don't destroy. It sounds trite, and perhaps it is. But I firmly believe that the most successful people in the world follow this principle every day, whether or not they have specifically written it anywhere. While it may not make you rich and famous, if you spend your time creating instead of destroying, it will undoubtedly make your life far better.
What does it mean, "create, don't destroy"? There are countless opportunities every day where we make decisions to add to or subtract from something. Projects at work started by an adversary that you'd rather see fail, cynical observations that don't have any constructive benefit, favors that you could easily do for someone, but choose not to -- these are all chances that we have to build on something, but instead choose to detract from it. There are all sorts of underlying roots -- jealousy, political gain, personal grudges -- but in each case the effort in the task is designed to undermine.
Instead, spend your time improving anything and everything you can. Even if you secretly want a project to fail, put that aside and contribute earnestly. It might feel good or be easy to criticize or be cynical, and often it is. Far more difficult is actually helping out and building. You'll find, however, that those that build are far better rewarded and end up far happier than those that destroy. Creation itself is an additive process -- the more you create, the more you'll be able to create. Why waste effort in making something fail when you could have a hand in making it succeed?